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Reunion Report: Is there a way back to my ex?

Why you were drawn together and why you clashed, whether the flow leans towards reconnecting or closure, the years and months when hearts meet more easily, what would have to change — and when it is better to let go. It is free and every answer shows which characters of both charts it comes from.

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What is in the report

Chapter 1. Why were we drawn together, and why did we clash?

Before deciding whether to try again, look at what bound you and where you went out of step — your two charts overlaid.

• What drew us together? The compatibility engine scores Day Master combinations and cycles, combinations and clashes between the day branches, month branches and signs, the spouse star, Peach Blossom, Heavenly Noble and useful-element support, grouped into attraction, stability, complement and tension. Each bar adds up the weight of its evidence.
• Why did we clash? Clashes, Punishments, Wonjin, Destructions and Harms between your day branches, month branches and signs, and controlling or clashing Day Masters, count as tension.
• What were we to each other? The ten god between your two Day Masters shows what seat each of you occupies for the other.
• How did our ways of loving differ? Each person's strongest of the five ten-god groups shows how they are in love (the same rule as the love report).

Chapter 2. Is there a way back?

With reunions, timing matters as much as feelings. Your luck is overlaid year by year and month by month to show when the bond moves again and when it is easy to collide.

• Is there a way back to each other? Combines the weight of attraction, stability and complement (4), the weight of tension (0) and the years in the next three when the bond moves for both of you (1). It is a ratio between two flows, not a probability of getting back together.
• Which years make it easier to reconnect? The next ten annual pillars are calculated for each of you, combining love signals (spouse star, Six Harmony with the day branch, Day Master combination, Peach Blossom) with both flow scores. Years when either day branch is clashed rank lower.
• Which years would be rocky even if we got back together? The compatibility engine's "years to look after each other": either day branch is clashed, or both flows run heavy (40 or less).
• Which months in the next three years help hearts meet? Both people's monthly luck is overlaid month by month. A good month brings love signals for both with the lower flow score (monthly 50%, annual 30%, 10-year 20%) at 45 or more, or a signal for one with 56 or more.

Chapter 3. What would have to change

The same two people meeting in the same way tend to part for the same reasons. For each point of collision, the promise it needs — and the way of reaching out that lands with them.

• If we met again, what would have to change? For each point of tension found in chapter 1 (clash, Wonjin, Punishment, controlling or clashing Day Masters), the promise a second try would need.
• If I reach out, how should I do it?
• Which habit of mine should I look at first? How any ten-god group at 30% or more in your chart shows up in a relationship (the same rule as the love report).

Chapter 4. When to let go, and how to look after yourself

A reunion is not the only answer. The signs it is better to let go, how to look after yourself whatever you decide, and when new love arrives.

• What are the signs it is better to let go? The size of your tension and attraction and the flow ratio from chapter 2, plus signs that apply to any relationship.
• How do I look after myself after a breakup? Your useful element is the element your chart needs most for balance. When you are worn out, following its nature speeds recovery.
• When does a new relationship arrive? Love years: of the next ten annual pillars, those that bring your spouse star, combine with your day branch, combine with your Day Master or bring Peach Blossom. Years that also clash or punish your day branch are ranked lower.

How does saju compatibility work?

Korean compatibility (宮合, gunghap) compares two charts rather than two signs: how your Day Masters meet, combinations and clashes between your day branches (the closest seat), month branches and signs, the spouse star, Peach Blossom and Heavenly Noble, and whether each chart carries the element the other needs. Each relationship weighs these differently — the day branch matters most for couples, the month branch for colleagues. See how compatibility works.

A reunion only happens when both hearts move. If they have clearly said no, do not keep reaching out — respect their choice. This report is a reference for how your two flows meet.

See a sample

Three answers from this report, calculated for fictional people: Jiyoung (a woman born July 15, 1990, 10:30 a.m.) and her ex Minsu (a man born March 2, 1988, 7 a.m.). The full report has 4 chapters and 14 answers; enter your own date of birth to get yours the same way.

FAQ

Is it really free? Yes, with no payment or sign-up.

What if I don't know their birthday? Send them an invite link. It carries only the eight characters of your chart — not your birth date — and they enter their own birthday to open the same report. Invites are available for the couple, spouse, friendship and work reports.

Is their date of birth stored? No. It is used only for the calculation in your browser and never saved. Please ask before sharing a result about someone else.

Does it say we will get back together? No. A reunion only happens when both hearts move. The report shows how your two flows meet, and it always respects the other person's choice.

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